Sorting the Past
In the comments after my last post, It’s still no, but still helpful, a number of questions were asked that I felt needed a longer answer than I would want to put in a comment and since they were all...
View ArticleTo Let Go
Reblogged from Morning Story and Dilbert: To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization that I can’t control...
View ArticleWhat I missed
Since I’ve been on the topic of how we work through our grief for that which we did not have, I thought I would share some particulars losses I ran into and what was underneath them. As I’ve worked my...
View Article(Highly overdue) Blog of the Year 2012 Award
The very lovely Chatte Nocturne from Not All About Cats nominated me for a Blog of the Year award back in early December and I am finally getting around to acknowledging it. So first, thank you so much...
View ArticleSilence
I’m doing a shift on the crisis line tonight and someone put up a wonderful quote from Rachel Naomi Remen on the wall. It’s about the power of silence and it’s so good (and true) that I wanted to pass...
View ArticleWhy keep going back?
***Trigger warning: Religious content, I talk about my Christian faith in pretty specific terms late in the post. A reader emailed to ask me a question whose answer I thought would make a good topic...
View ArticleHandling the Erotic Transference: Male Patient, Female Therapist
Reblogged from FEELING UP IN DOWN TIMES: Psychology in real life, for the good life...: Seem to be getting lots of queries about erotic transference, otherwise known as falling for your shrink. Since...
View ArticleMIA for a bit
Just wanted to let everyone know that I may be a bit scarce around the blogosphere for a bit. We are coming up on a full release and since I’m the last guy in the pipeline, I tend to get very busy...
View ArticleMust Read Blog
I just found a really valuable blog written by Dr. Jeffrey Smith, a psychiatrist who works in Scarsdale, NY. I want to thank his reader K who very kindly linked to my blog, which is how I found Moments...
View ArticleHow do you protect yourself from the hurt?
Greetings all, sorry I know I have been completely absent as of late. I am still working 10-12 hours a day, six days a week. Should be done in about two weeks which will be nice as I am missing having...
View ArticleIt’s not really about my mom
Don’t want to leave everyone in suspense but between my schedule and the fact that I am in the midst of trying to understand what is going on inside of me, this will be brief (ok, admittedly, brief is...
View ArticleFinally Back
Greetings gentle readers, That hiatus was a twee bit longer than I anticipated. The end of the release kept stretching out without the hours getting any better (the upside is I earned a ton of comp...
View ArticleMedication
jwd50 asked over on the Ask AG page why I had never spoken about medications. And I realized its mainly because I have been stable on my medication for a long time such that I don’t really give it a...
View ArticleDepleted
Hi All, I am seriously behind in both my correspondence and in posting replies to questions from the Ask AG page. We just returned from a four-day trip to see my older daughter’s graduation (which was...
View ArticleBreak
I’m going to be taking a bit of a break from the internet; I am feeling like I need to step back and figure some stuff out. I am also feeling extremely fragile and think some space is a good idea. I...
View ArticlePeeking out
Hi All, I’m attempting to come back out and play, but its a bit harder (and more complicated) than I thought it would be. Of course, when isn’t it? First, I want to say thank you so much to everyone...
View ArticleMonday Pick Me Up
Just a little something to cheer you up on a Monday! Enjoy. 51 Animal Pictures You Need To See Before You Die
View ArticleWhat’s a therapist to do?
Alex asked the question below over on the Ask AG page and I am going to offer my take on it. I am wondering if you have any insight on a psychotherapist’s role when a patient is demonstrating...
View ArticleEmotions in Eating Survey
A friend over at psychcafe put up the post below and I wanted to spread the word: A friend of a friend is working on a psychology PhD in Australia, and is doing some research around the role of...
View ArticleSome Handy Links
Greetings all, just a quick post to provide some useful information. I am working on a post to talk about how I am actually doing but its slow going. Promise I’ll get there eventually. But in the...
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